What do people think about love??Some say love is a river. Some say love a silly song. Some say love is all around us. It leads us out from where we belong. Some say love is hearing laughter in the rain. But on the upper east side, we all know love is pain.
Haha, so enough of all that phrases, i'll take it for granted that each one of you had finished my first "love" story. And now this is the Second "love" letter. Chapter 2!!
Okay,lets get started. Last time i remember i scold kinda lots about boys and it seems like its all boysssss' faults that causes breaking between couples. What i should say is that, it not all about boys OK???>"<
Before you start reading please knowing that i don't mean to write this and all of this is searching on web stuff. Some is i who add in. lol. So, hope you people don't get mad after reading because i don't mean it.
Firstly - Those girls that depends on bf money!
Hey girls, if u just started the relationship with your bf please please please please!! STOP! depends on your bf money. Of course include those who had already in relationship for a long time.
The money that they spend is not theirs, so you are spending his parents money instead of his.Even if the money is really his own, so what?! do you feel good spending it?? Because earning money isn't easy if you have been working before. Don't be so cheap. I know i know,you so gonna say that some boys also cheap. Thats correct, but not much of them out there.
By the way, your bf is an idiot if he keep paying for you.Good luck to him and i think he'll grow up someday. If he is clever, you will be dump immediately after he is fed up!!I meant it. Boys need a gf isn't hoping you to use his money and i don't think you girl would like your bf to use your money right? Everyone do have feeling and is not like boys are different. They are gentlemen. Nah, there will be plenty of nag* nag* nag* after that in front of all his friends. You like that?? I don't think so. Just for girls to know that. Is not that only girls would talk about their bf in front of their girl friends but boys too.
If you need money, why look for a bf? Go for a job isn't it better? So better think about it,girls. =)
Secondly - Spending too much time!!
Girls should know that boys should have time for their own. He is so young and you are asking for his 24hours. That is SO NOT the way to do it. They didn't spend time with you even just for 1 hours doesn't mean they don't miss you or don't love you. They DO!! And they just need friends and times for their own stuff but not all for you alone. SO AS YOU!!
When girls needed time, boy gives. When boys needed times, girls kick their ass. lol. After that they will start bombarding boys with tonne of questions. Even wife is not so selfish asking their husband to stay with them for 24hours. What do you ask from boys? seven eleven?? and they are not your pet,bird! If you love your bf, PLEASE trust them! Not lock them inside a cage and release them when you think you want it. And TIMES UP go back to the cage. BANG! Damn it. That is so unfair. Sometimes they even given up their sleep for you and you still think that these are not enough and you want more.
For boys we think that, we are together..we have lots of time to spend together why you need to make it like today is the last day?? Is actually hard for boys to approach a girl as much as a girl approaches a boy. He need to make sure he really like you before he approaches if he is really a nice guy. If he is flirty then i think you should have know Whatever he is. But guys usually think a lot before he wanted you to be his gf. So girls, why not just give your bf some space to breath? You know, actually some phrases did make sense : "The more you hold onto your bf and never let him out, the more he wanna fly away and see the beauty of the world outside his cage."
Give each other some space, take a breath, trust your bf, love him and appreciate him. He will love you more and more each day. If he really wanna leave you, don't sad..is his lose because he give up on someone so nice like you. And you will get someone better than him. =)
Lastly,lol..sorry..i am too lazy to write so much. So this is the last one i wrote. XD - is about touching your bf/gf heart.
Please boys and girls. Touching your bf/gf heart isn't hard. Just give some advise. Simple advise can make his/her day. Just said some word that can make your bf/gf happy when he/she is sad. Is simple and not long. These example is for girls to boys. Can do it vise versa if you wanted. lol.
For example : "Is ok dear, you still got me." "You know i love you." "Don't worry, i will always be with you." "I miss your smile,dear. " "hugs" "muackss" "I can stay with you till you are happy." "Hey dear,see me :D. Is my smile sweet?haha." "Sometimes ppl do sad, i know that dear. You are sad, i am sad. I'm you. I will keep smile to you until you smile back.haha. ;P" and etc.............
Boys are idiot, they can be convince easily. Just some idiot words make them feel so much that they love you more. If you leave me alone, he will think that actually you don't like him. {What is he needed a gf for? hurting himself more? why should he have this kind of hurt? He don't deserve it! He's better without you. Maybe is time to end it.} That is all the stuff that boys think if they been left out when he is sad or angry. I don't know about girls. Maybe you should tell me about it. haha.
Before i end, there is always some advises for lovers.
(This time is for those who are going to break)
- If a guy do wanna leave you, their is no ways for you to stop him. And the more you try the more you get hurts, trust me. Let them go. =)
- If girls do wanna leave you, trust me they make it so obvious that you don't wanna know. They will open the door and kick you out! Right girls? haha.XD
PS: I am sorry if i hurt you somewhere in this passage. SORRY! :) i don't mean to hurt you. Hope you all understand.
Okay..until next time.
x.o.x.o
Bye.
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